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Relationships in today’s times

So many couples walking hand in hand by the road side, muttering sweet nothings to each other, silently smiling with their eyes doing the talking..Isn’t that a common sight these days? And it surely is lovely. We see cafes, ice cream parlours, restaurants and food joints, parks and the parking area too, everywhere we find couples roaming about. 
The beginning of a relation brings so many happy moments, coming to know each other, the soft whispers and the lovely messages, when a smile on her face is enough to help you survive your life, when a small cut in his palm freaks you out, the falling of her hair strands on her face while the winds blow on and you wish may the winds never stop, when her good night call is what makes you go to sleep at night and the morning wish is that helps you wake up, the ‘you make me feel alive’ feeling…I know while reading this you might be remembering your love or the good old days. And that is because these are really the most precious moments of anybody’s life.
But then everything doesn’t remain the same. As time passes by, this becomes a routine which later on changes into a pain in the neck. Why? Why does love which is ought to be regarded as ‘timeless’ turn into ‘time pass’ ?
Why do people break up? What goes wrong in the heavenly habitat of love? Why does happiness turn into sadness and love turns into hate? These are a few difficult questions in life but they need to be figured out, don’t you think so? It’s time to save the essence of love and relationships.

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    PurplesnPinks

    March 13, 2012

    ur soo right..harshi! y cant "hold on" instead of "letting go" ..when u were together n fought with every1 just to b together den y today do u fight wit each oda and get separated.
    Relationships are FRAGILE.. n all it needs is lil compromises, love, care, respect, communication n trust. with all dis , everyone can really make it! 🙂
    good read! harshi xoxoxo

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    Alok Vats

    March 13, 2012

    Hmm, nicely said. Good blog Harshita.. Keep it up..

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    kunj pratap

    March 13, 2012

    Congratulations Harshita for a new blog! A tantalising description. One reason for many relationships to have a lovely start and a sad ending lies in the character of the partners. In such cases, the partners build love in their behaviour but not in the character. If the partners have love in the character, the fire will be never put off. Ask me, if you need examples.

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    Tanuj

    March 13, 2012

    nyc blog harshi….. keep it up….

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    nehulvarshney

    March 13, 2012

    truly said harshi… 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 13, 2012

    Thanku Alok Sir 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 13, 2012

    Yes Erica and that is y i felt a need to make people realize the importance of a relation and thanks for the compliment 🙂
    xoxoxox
    🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 13, 2012

    Thanx a ton for your wishes Kunj 🙂
    And suggestions as well as advice are most welcome from all the readers and members
    🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 13, 2012

    thanx Tanuj 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 13, 2012

    @nehul: :):)

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    harsh

    March 13, 2012

    you should do some more research on the second part of the article…

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 14, 2012

    In what aspect? harsh could you please explain elaborately?

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    Vaanbhatt

    March 14, 2012

    communication is key to any relations…give talk a chance before breakup…it may work…if not, then forgive and forget…

    इस राह में कई मोड़ हैं कोई आयेगा कोई जायेगा
    तुम्हें जिसने दिल से भुला दिया उसे भूलने की दुआ करो…

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    Vaanbhatt

    March 14, 2012

    remove word verification…

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 14, 2012

    kya khoob kaha!!!!!
    🙂

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    Prasoon

    March 17, 2012

    Does true love exist?

    I seriously doubt but then its my opinion. I have friends who are madly in love, I have friends who love their single life.

    I too was in love madly. I'm not anymore….

    Hence I said…. it depends.. 🙂 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 17, 2012

    yeah…it all depends on how life gives you…the way things come across you make you the person you are..and your valuable comments will always be invited on this blog 🙂

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