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Ego Matters

It was Friday evening. I had come to stay overnight at a friend’s place. We were chatting like long lost lovers meeting after a gap of years. Well we were actually meeting after a long break of six months. She told what I had missed on her wardrobe, her love life, her office life, blah blah, she went on and on. But then we were disturbed by her boyfriend’s call. I hate boy friends. Why do they call when two friends are talking after so long? Don’t they realize how important gossips are to us?
She was excitedly telling him about a certain project that she and her team mates had been working upon and they expected approval from their boss. And if approved she would get promotion and she would have to shift to Pune. The minute she said this there was an outburst from his side. What is the need to go there? There was a plethora of questions at her. I hoped he didn’t cry. She just said, ” You are just another egoistic male. Good night”. And she hung up
I didn’t know what to say. She asked me to pass on the can of Red Bull. I guess she needed some energy. She looked at me and both of us began to laugh. Let the boy friends dig their head in ego, we have our friendship tonight, what else do we want. If he loves her, he will surely understand her.

16 Comments

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    Tanuj

    March 31, 2012

    EGO…… actually i hate dis wrd….. we shud learn 2 respect every relation n to understand d amt of possesiveness required 4 any relation….. over possesiveness sumtym causes irritation…… by d way nyc 1 harshi…..keep it lets rock…..

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    Ankit

    March 31, 2012

    Another masterpiece from the wand (pen) of the great magician (writer)…

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 31, 2012

    very true Tanuj…ii wish people could actually understand this someday
    And thanks 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    March 31, 2012

    thanks Ankit..I am honored 🙂

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    Niesha

    April 2, 2012

    hey harshita, i like your blog… following,,, if you like mine olz do follow back.
    http://indianbeautyforever.blogspot.in

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 2, 2012

    heya..thanks for following…And I am already following you 🙂

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    Prasoon

    April 3, 2012

    Boy friend's don't disturbs, they love . They are not egoistic, they care. Hehe…. but it depends on individual 🙂

    Nice Write up Ms. Shrivastava. Short & Sweet. 🙂 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 3, 2012

    yes..now the opinions can differ from the masculine to the feminine gender 😉
    And thanx again for being there on my blog 🙂
    god bless

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    I do, I do.

    April 4, 2012

    Well written!

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 4, 2012

    thank you 🙂

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    CYNOSURE

    April 4, 2012

    haha…boyfriend-girlfriend issues…I stay away from it… 😉

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 4, 2012

    And I am doing a research on it 😉

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    Shreya

    April 7, 2012

    Your blog is like reading a diary 🙂 enjoyed the conversations.

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 7, 2012

    heya shreya…thanks…Will continue to entertain my readers…glad u liked them 🙂
    God bless

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    Zeba

    April 7, 2012

    Ah. Quite a woe that can be. This ego.

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 7, 2012

    yes Zeba…By God's grace he realized his mistake and apologized later on

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