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She left Him

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And I see him persuading every day. Every day he comes by her side and asks her to come back to him and every day she remains adamant. He dies for her daily thinking one day she would come back to him. It’s been forty days since she left him and not a day has passed when I haven’t seen him crying for her, trying to win her over back again. But she doesn’t come. She left him for some another random guy who had money. She didn’t bother for his love and his care.
He fought with his family to stay by her side, his wallet was empty but his heart was and still overflows with love for her. He isn’t rich like other boys, he doesn’t have stylish bikes and cars for his lady but he’ll always be ready to take her in the bus making her sit on his lap. When she becomes tired of walking, he lifts her to carry her to shade. When she is hungry he takes her to a respectable restaurant, even when he knows he will be left with nothing in his pocket. He can’t buy her a branded dress but he never forgets to buy her something when he accompanies me to the market place. She loves strawberries and I see him buying them for her even today. When he comes to meet her at the hostel gate in the afternoon or evening he knows she might be hungry, he will always be found with an egg roll packed for her. He won’t buy it for himself but he will never forget to buy it for her. I know how much he loves egg roll but he doesn’t have it anymore.
His friends keep telling him to forget her but he thinks that one day she will come back to him. We always told him that she was not the right girl for him but all we got in return was a thrashing. He always believed that she had a heart of gold. He used to tell me so many stories about them. I can’t see him in pain. Whenever they had a fight I always scolded him taking her side. Today I hate myself for supporting her. I always thought that she was the one suffering but in the present times when I see the turn of events all I can say that she is a bitchy slut. It may be because I am close to my bro but I’ve seen their love through all the thick and thins and I know how much he loved her. I cannot see my bro die like this; I can’t see him in pain. I scold him for trying to convince her daily. I tell him that she won’t come back she has dumped you but he doesn’t believe. He pleads, he prays, he cries, he suffers and all she does is make a mockery of his love daily. I see her laugh at him when he is says, “Please come back to me. I’ll love you even more. I’ll make more money. I’ll make this relationship work again.” I see him try to make sense of every word he says, he thinks of every way to make her realise that he loves her more than anyone else in this world. And then she laughs again. I feel like cutting her into small pieces and feeding to the dogs.
I wish God had some mercy. I wish people didn’t dump their partner for a better living and financial status. I wish he gets the strength to survive without her. I can’t see his red eyes daily that suggest that he had been crying all night. I can’t see my brother lose himself. I love you bro, we all love you a lot. So what if I am not your real sis, I love you and care for you more than anyone else does in this world. You’ll get the love of your life. She doesn’t deserve you. Please learn to accept the facts and I am there to support you in every obstacle you face. You have all of us by your side. We’ll make you strong again. This life is full of colors; it’s another shade of gray which will soon fade away. Life will soon be bright again. 
P.S:This isn’t fiction. I need your prayers for my bro.

12 Comments

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    Prasoon

    April 28, 2012

    I have been through all these. So I can understand how does it feel.

    I wasted my time, precious time before I finally decided to move on.
    Life is supremelyy beautiful. Ask your brother and make him understand the importance of life. Let him see this post and he will understand there are people who love him.

    Im sure he will undestand.

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    Ankit

    April 28, 2012

    Been there, done that…!!
    If the experience counts…then see if my comment makes any sense.

    There is a reason that two pwople in a relationship are called a 'couple'…!!

    One of my teacher once said to me "Try, try and try again…but then quit…don't be an ass about it."

    And as the famous saying goes…"When you can't save a relationship, at least save your pride."

    I'm an atheist…so I don't pray…but just ask him one question..would you trade your pride or character (who you are) for the one you love??
    Bad trade I say…

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    Niesha K. J

    April 28, 2012

    i just hate those people who dump their partners beacause of their financial status, looks or any other thing that should not even matter when you love someone truely… if i had to leave someone that would be only infedility which is unacceptable for me otherwise everything else is not of much importance to me… 🙂 thanks Harshita for the article..:)

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 28, 2012

    It'll take time Prasoon but I hope he realizes it soon:)

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 28, 2012

    Yeah..you are right Ankit but when it comes to love one tends to forget everything:(
    And even I have lost my connection with Him:( I am not an atheist but I have stopped praying, asking for his blessings, the communication we once shared is lost..God is just a Supreme existence as of now…

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 28, 2012

    Truly said Neisha..Wonder why people lose the charm of a person they used to love:(
    That only they did not love, they just fooled around and were simply infatuated I guess or may be materialistic powers mean more to them than emotional bonds…
    thanks for reading Neisha…
    Luv ya
    🙂
    take care

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    shy

    April 28, 2012

    Hope he understands soon. Surely he will find a true love who loves him more than him!

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 28, 2012

    Same here…

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    Aashirwad Nunihar

    April 28, 2012

    Fabulous piece of work Harshita, I kind of related to the story. 🙂

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 28, 2012

    thanks Aashirwad:)
    Thanks for being a regular visitor at my blog..This is straight from the heart esp. for my bro..
    take care

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    dhruv solanki

    April 29, 2012

    🙁

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    Harshita Srivastava

    April 29, 2012

    🙁

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